Create Unstoppable Confidence

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Self-confident people have indestructible self-belief, nothing can take away their feeling of self-worth and they bounce back again and again.
You can feel like this. You have all that it takes to go for what you want and to ride the ups and downs that life inevitably brings. You have given yourself a chance to get going and change your life. Just do it!

A person with strong Self- belief, checklist:

1. Never compare yourself with others.
2. Knows that you are your own person and that nobody else can understand YOU as well as YOU can.
3. Listen to helpful advice and comments, however never blindly follows other people's opinions.
4. Trusts your instincts and listens to your heart.
5. Recognises that you will make mistakes and learn from them and moves on.
6. Depends upon your own judgement and always gives yourself time to work things through.
7. Values rest and relaxation as much as action planning and activity.
8. Knows that when you are calm and focused you will make the best decisions.
9. Accepts that there will be days when your self-belief is not so strong and will wait until you are feeling more positive before committing yourself to any course of action.

RESPOND CREATIVELY

The only way to change your circumstances, in any of your relationships is to change yourself. When life throws us a challenge we have a choice to make.

Ask yourself these questions .........
How do you respond now? How would you like to respond? How would you like to feel?

Being creative in how you respond is not always easy, it requires courage and will-power at a time when things might become very tense.

I would like you to change or delete a few words in your vocabulary.

• Difficult becomes Challenging or Trying.
• delete the word "try" take it right out of your vocabulary!
  

When we use the word "try" we give ourselves an excuse not to do something. Think about that for a minute. Start by making these changes, by using these words.

Low self-esteem is always linked with victim consciousness. What is holding YOU back?
How could we continue to let ourselves;

• lose out,
• miss out,
• get treated like a doormat,
• be abused etc.

This low self-esteem is limiting you, do you deserve to be treated in this way?
Next time when you find yourself diving for cover, or feeling sick with guilt and blame, or is it often causing you to be unsatisfied with your life? Thereby lowering your self-esteem even more, think about how you can stand up for yourself and ask am I taking responsibility for my life? You have to raise your self confidence.......You ask how?.......You can with awareness and training.......Your journey has began!

Do You Remember When ?

Is it time to dust off the dreams of your childhood?

Remember while you were growing up all those years ago?
Remember the dreams you used to have about what you were going to be when you grew up?
Remember what you wanted to be?
Perhaps you wanted to be like Super Man and save the world or perhaps you could visualize your self as an ice skater or a ballerina.

You did have fabulous plans for your future!

Of course, you would not have known at the time in what capacity.
Would you be on stage, would you take your love of play and be a stage actor? Would you be famous?

The details were a little hazy.
Did you have this deep burning desire, now the next question is did you follow up on those dreams of yours. There may have been a million reasons to have fallen into the job you are doing today.

So like most of people, you pushed those unrealistic thoughts and big dreams into an imaginary box, where they stayed locked it away.
And now, many years later, all grown up. Can your dreams now slowly and quietly bubble back up to the surface of your conscious mind?
So what hidden dreams are you harboring?
Is it time to open your box of imaginings, dust them off and start dreaming again?

The dreams and desires that burn inside you began as thoughts that have been given to you by a higher power. The Universe has planted these ideas into you throughout your lifetime with the intention that you pick up the idea and run with it, believe in it and yourself and fulfill your life's purpose.

So dust them off and start thinking about them even more magnificently, spend your time imagining what might be possible for you. And then spend time getting clear on what you want for your life now and in the future, dream bigger than you have ever dared dream. Most importantly follow trough on those dreams of yours

Have a big dream for each area of your life, in health when all is said and done that would be most important. Mind you, love and relationships, wealth or finances, it is all important, career or job and in the area of spirituality.

Believe that you have everything within you right now that you need to reach these goals.
So today, say YES to your big dreams, have faith that you can have anything you can imagine and take your first step into the future where you are passionately living on purpose.

John Assaraf said ‘God does not call on the qualified, God qualifies the called who say YES. The how will always come after the what’.

Imagine..........

Imagine that you could be happy every day.

Can you imagine to be happy every day of your life? Happy that you have the people you love around you. Happy that they can, either enjoy retirement or go to work, do what it is they want to do.

Can you imagine just to be happy with life?

Did you know that more relationships break up because people don’t know how to validate each other than for any other reason. Over time, pent-up frustration turns into anger.
Now imagine rather than blaming each other, you can learn how to work as a team and help each other through difficulties and power struggles.
In order to do this, you have to create a safe relationship where you can express needs and fears.

Just imagine with a few more life skills, you can learn to effectively resolve anger and conflict.
Did you know that one of the biggest causes of unresolved anger between people is a lack of understanding. We all have different strengths and weaknesses, different ways of expressing ourselves.
Imagine and know that, when it comes to the need for understanding, friendship, love and intimacy, we are very much alike; we simply express ourselves in different ways.

Happiness comes from being contented for having what you have.

Not all people who went to bed last night where able to open their eyes this morning. You are truly fortunate to be alive this morning, able and healthy to make it another productive day.
Life is for doing
Make your day great and count your blessings.

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Happiness is Contagious !

Did you know that Happiness is Contagious?

Did you realize that Joy can literally extend from person to another?

Are you feeling great today?

You may end up spreading the joy to someone you don’t even know at all. Now how cool is that?

Taking control of your own happiness can positively affect others, did you know that?

We get this chain reaction in happiness that increases the odds in terms of us trying to shape our own moods and make sure we have a positive impact on the people we love most!

Happiness spreads among people, like a bonfire from one to another. That means when you feel happy, a friend of a friend of a friend has a slightly higher chance of feeling happy too.

Each happy friend increases your own chance of being happy!

I read somewhere that "you can not be happier than the least happy child".
What is truly amazing to discover is that when you replace the word ‘child’ with any other name the sentence is still true.”

If you have a lot of connected friends or a wide social circle, you are more likely to become happy.

NO you will not become sad if you do not have a wide circle of friends!

What was the term? Smiling faces, going places......